1.27.2011

A Couple of Weeks in Pictures

It's been a busy January. I'm exhausted, and it's not over yet. Thankfully, it's also been really, really great!

I started back to work (albeit not quite two full days a week yet between snow and other factors) at the beginning of the month. It's been great, actually and Cooper LOVES his time with Grandma and Grandpa. The first day there, with my mother's help, he sculpted his family out of play-doh. He knows exactly which face is who and he made specific choices telling my mom exactly what to do on each face. Note the blue face in the bottom row with the angry face. That's Chloe. Have I mentioned that their relationship is a work in progress? I'm fairly certain that if Chloe had done the sculpting Cooper would have been the one with the angry face.


Then came Chloe's birthday. She thoroughly enjoyed being the star of the show for a bit. She cried tears of joy when we all sang happy birthday to her. She actually couldn't blow out her candles because she was crying, but trying not to cry or let us see she was crying. I think she just felt special in that moment- during a time when she's feeling less special because of all the attention Cooper is getting. I nearly lost it myself.



The best part about giving Chloe a gift- her reaction. She never lets us down!


 Cooper fell asleep on the couch  right smack in the middle of the party in full Buzz Lightyear regalia and all. Classic. 


This past Sunday, we had the privilege of dedicating Cooper- standing up in front of our family and friends and committing to being intentional about weaving faith in to the fabric of our family and being an example to him of what a life devoted to Christ looks like. What an awesome responsibility and a great privilege. I managed not to cry- this is impressive if you know me at all.



OK, this next picture is classic Scot: I'M trying to get a nice family picture, HE is tickling someone so that it's next to impossible to get one good shot. The kids? They do fine. Scot? Not so much! :)  (Thankfully we did get one shot- see above- if you can ignore the fact that Cooper's shirt is pulled up from the tickling incident!)


Here is another classic Scot: giving everyone in the room a HEART ATTACK by throwing Cooper up in the air. Cooper thinks it is hysterical (good thing HIS heart is fixed!)....I find it slightly less hysterical. (In case you are wondering, this is between services at church, not in the middle of service. Scot's not THAT bad!)

That same afternoon, we had a real treat. Jess (left in the picture below) was an intern at New Day, and was the one who posted the blog post about Cooper seeing us for the first time. We got a chance to "meet" Jess via Skype while she was at New Day, and found out her home is not far from us. I had the pleasure of meeting Jess in person while we waited to travel to China. She gave me pictures, and school work, and also shared story after story about him so I could get to know him a bit before I even met him. 

Well, this past weekend, Anneli, another New Day intern whose blog I have followed for a long time was visiting Jess. When we were matched with Cooper, she e-mailed me to tell me what a great, sweet, well-behaved little boy Cooper is.....and also that he peed on her when she took him on a field trip! :) 

When I told them we were dedicating Cooper, they wanted to come. However, we decided that we would have more time if they came over for dinner that afternoon instead. So, they did. 


It was so great. They brought a bunch of foods from Chinatown in Boston that Cooper was used to eating at preschool in China (none of which he would eat- but Sawyer is enjoying them!). They also brought a puzzle they found that was a favorite in preschool there and a panda t-shirt for Cooper. We played, and Cooper danced, and they got to see a sneak peek of Cooper's birthday video. Basically, we just enjoyed their stories about China, their lives, and the New Day kids. We talked about which New Day kids we just HAD to see matched soon and the kids we'd take home in an instant if we could (all of them!).  What a blessing their visit was- both for Cooper and for us! We hope to be able to do it again sometime.


The biggest blessing of all, Jess was here to translate a rockin' episode of Xi Yang Yang (The Pleasant Sheep and the Big Bad Wolf). We had been in the dark far too long. It was a good episode too....the wolf stole all the grass and the sheep staged an uprising to get it back. Good stuff.

Just to prove that Cooper is fitting right in around here, this is what Cooper was wearing when Jess and Anneli arrived. And he would not take it off. Nope- we was a prince-uh (aka princess) and he was NOT going to give up the dress.

Phew- that's a lot going on...but it's not over yet. Cooper's first birthday home is Tuesday. We're celebrating with a party here on Saturday that he CAN. NOT. WAIT. for. He's been counting the days, and we can't wait to celebrate with him either. 

Then, we look forward to a nice, quiet February. I plan to stay in my pajamas all month.

1.21.2011

Chloe's Dinner Prayer


Dear God,

Thank you for bringing Cooper all the way from China to New Hampshire so we could love him and be his family. Please help him to learn English and start eating American things.

In Jesus's name, Amen.

1.19.2011

Missing

Of course, there is a lot of Cooper's story that is missing. I expected that.

But, there are other things missing too....things that bother me and I don't know why.

I am missing pictures of what we were doing on some significant dates in Cooper's life.

I have no pictures of us on the day he was born. Although this picture was taken two days later:


I do happen to have a picture of what we were doing on the day he was found. And, in a way, that's tougher than having no picture at all:

We were celebrating at a family party. While our son suffered the biggest loss of his life.

I do have one other picture. I took this picture the day Cooper arrived at the orphanage.

I have no picture of what we did on the day when he arrived at New Day a year later needing oxygen upon arrival. However, this picture was taken just one day later.


I have no picture of what we did on the day (6 short days later) his heart was repaired, although  again, one day later, this picture was taken.


I have no picture of what we did on any of his birthdays. Not one.

I also know that these pictures just highlight all the years, all the stuff we missed. He missed.

How much he lost, and how much we lost.

And looking at them would make me really sad- to think of what I was doing here, oblivious to the fact that my son was lying in a hospital bed recovering form open heart surgery or blowing out the candles on his first birthday cake or being left alone in a hospital to hopefully be found.

But still. I wish I had pictures.

1.14.2011

And we have a winner!

OK, so I took video of the big drawing, but I literally can barely keep my eyes open. I'm ALL. DONE. for today.

Chloe's birthday party got snowed out on Wednesday (and that's saying a lot for New England), so we moved it to today. Let's just say, I wasn't ready. And, tomorrow is her family party. Good thing I'm crazy about this girl.

But, next year....none of this two-party stuff. I'm going to become a birthday party communist- one party, like it or not.

Soooooo.....uploading the video and finding it a home on Yo*u Tub*e is just WAY too much work for me today. You are just gonna have to trust me on this (Sawyer will vouch for me if necessary).

The winner is.......... Brandi!


Blogger The Stiffs said...

Hi there,

I'm Brandi. We're smack in the middle of the adoption process. I love reading your blog and your insight. Thanks for sharing your life with us!
January 9, 2011 11:10 AM

Brandi....if you'd be so kind as to send your mailing address to me (scjchardy@yahoo.com), I will get your book right out to you for you to enjoy.

You know, that was fun. 2011 may be the year of the give-aways for me. That was too fun not to do again! It was especially fun to meet so many of you and to hear that some friends I haven't seen in forever (Carrie) are following along. Again, it was a great encouragement. Thanks for sharing our days with us!

But for now, I'm off to bed. It's 7:50pm.

Yes. I'm that pathetic.

1.10.2011

5 Years, really?

Can she possibly really be FIVE years old? WOW- time flies.



I'm thankful every day to be her mom. She teaches me a lot by just being who she is. And, this year in particular, as she's struggling to not be the baby of the family and to share attention with a new brother who isn't too fond of her, we are going to celebrate the heck out of her!

She's got a magic all her own, and I'm thankful to God for the opportunity to share in that magic every day!

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If you haven't read the "Simplifying" post below and entered the give-away, please do! I'll pick a winner on Friday! I love hearing from all of you! 

1.08.2011

Simplifying

When giving out our blog address to people before our trip to China, I realized just how completely annoying the blog address was. It's just too wordy. It never really mattered much until then, but even now people continue to ask for it, and I couldn't take it anymore.

I've gone .com to simplify!

The old, wordy address will still work (you'll just get automatically redirected), however, my new .com blog address is:


If having the correct address in your blog reader or bookmarks is important to you, you'll want to change it!

To celebrate, I'm having a simple, simple give-away. (See, simplicity is a theme here.) I'm giving away a copy of the book that was the inspiration for my new blog title- one of my all-time picture book favorites: My Many Colored Days by Dr. Seuss.



To enter? It's simple......leave a comment on this post. If you've never posted a comment before, introduce yourself! If you are an old friend and regular commenter, tell me about one of your favorite books. A book you just love and can't help but recommend. It doesn't have to be for kids, but it can be. I'll pick a winner on Friday, January 14th- so make sure you comment before then!

2011 is sure to bring many colored days all it's own.....thanks for joining us for all of them! You are all such an encouragement to me! I hope the new year is full of blessings of all colors for you!

1.02.2011

Meeting Cooper

I finally had a chance to upload and edit the video of us meeting Cooper. The video was taken by some of the volunteers at New Day who so kindly offered to record this moment for us so that we could have it forever! I'm SO thankful- because I honestly didn't remember half of it. When you live it, it all sort of becomes a hazy memory! I love remembering the details through this video. It's sure to be a precious treasure for Cooper and our family.

You can watch the video here.